What were you doing before living on the ocean? Did you have careers that you felt lacked something?
Lily: So, a few years ago, I was a dancer based in Sydney. I absolutely loved my art, but I found that I wasn't in the suitable mental space to pursue (what I found to be) a challenging and competitive industry. So, I decided to leave the industry, and then I found myself in tourism.
I enjoyed working in tourism too, but I always had a big hole in my heart from quitting dancing, which could never be filled by tourism. The job I had in tourism was a pretty creative role, and I did really enjoy it, but I found that I struggled to work alongside a few people in my workplace. I found that a lot of coercion and lack of accountability was demonstrated by a few senior "leaders", and that didn't really sit well with me.
In the end, I went crazy from caring too much about trying to change things. I couldn't ever shut off from work. All I could talk, think and dream about was work. It was draining, but I couldn't let it go until I realised WHY I couldn't let it go.
I couldn't let it go because I felt that I was identified by my job. You know, when you meet someone for the first time, one of the first things they ask you is "what do you do?". So I felt like I needed to be proud to answer that question and that if I wasn't, then I somehow wasn't successful or proud of myself. Or worse, had a shi*t identity!
"It's backwards, and not at all how someone should think."
I only realised how unhealthy a situation I was in once I could look back at it. I think being at sea has really made things clear and put life into perspective. It's also filled the hole in my heart that dancing left and encouraged me to keep dancing, even if it's just for fun and not as a career.
Hayden: My story isn't as long as Lily's haha. I have been a carpenter for many years, but I've also worked in the social media realm and freelance photography. I really like all my jobs, but nothing can compare to living out here on the ocean. Being out here is a big reset. When we're out here, the little worries don't exist anymore; the ocean's vastness, beauty, and absolute power really put life into perspective and makes you appreciate this beautiful planet we're on.